Top 5 First Dance Requests of 2024 That Will Surprise You from a UK Wedding Band

Choosing the perfect first dance song sets the tone for your wedding reception and creates a memorable moment for you and your guests. As a UK wedding band performing over a hundred weddings every year, we’ve noticed some interesting trends in first dance requests for 2024. Some choices are classic, others unexpected, and one might even surprise you. Here are the top five first dance songs couples are asking for this year, ranked from five to one.

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5. First Date – Blink-182

At number five is "First Date" by Blink-182, a pop-punk anthem that’s making a comeback as a first dance choice. This song brings a fun, upbeat energy that’s perfect for couples who want to keep things lighthearted and joyful. The lyrics capture the excitement and nerves of starting a new chapter together, making it a relatable pick for many newlyweds.

We often start this one slow in first dance style and run the chorus through before kicking into the full tempo, full band, full beans version and get everyone up on the dancefloor. Below is our full tempo version.

4. No First Dance

Surprisingly, the second most popular choice is no first dance at all. Many couples in 2024 are skipping the traditional first dance, choosing instead to jump straight into the party. This trend reflects a shift away from formalities and toward a more relaxed, personalized celebration.

If you’re not comfortable dancing in front of everyone or simply want to keep the focus on fun, skipping the first dance is a valid and increasingly common option. It also gives your band or DJ more freedom to keep the energy high from the start.

3. Still Into You – Paramore

Coming in at number three is "Still Into You" by Paramore. This song blends catchy pop-rock with heartfelt lyrics about lasting love and commitment. Its upbeat rhythm makes it a great choice for couples who want a first dance that’s both emotional and danceable.

Again with this one we tend to start off with a full verse or just a pre chorus before kicking in and inviting everyone onto the dancefloor for the chorus. You can see how that would sound below

2. Sky Full of Stars – Coldplay

At number two is "Sky Full of Stars" by Coldplay, a song that has remained a wedding favorite for years but continues to grow in popularity. Its uplifting melody and electronic-infused sound create a magical atmosphere perfect for a first dance.

The song’s gradual build-up allows couples to start slow and then pick up the pace, making it versatile for different dance styles.

1. Baby I'm Yours – Arctic Monkeys

Topping the list for 2024 is "Baby I'm Yours" by Arctic Monkeys. This soulful, romantic track has captured the hearts of many couples looking for something unique yet timeless. Its smooth, jazzy vibe sets a warm and intimate mood, ideal for a close, tender first dance.

The lyrics express devotion and promise, making it a meaningful choice for newlyweds. The song’s steady tempo allows for a simple, elegant dance that feels personal and genuine. Bands appreciate the song’s rich instrumentation, which translates beautifully into live performances.

Why These Choices Matter

These top five first dance songs show how couples are blending tradition with personal style. Whether it’s a nostalgic punk rock tune, a heartfelt pop-rock anthem, a soaring Coldplay hit, or a soulful Arctic Monkeys ballad, the key is choosing a song that feels authentic to your relationship.

The rise of couples opting out of a first dance altogether also highlights how weddings are becoming more tailored to individual preferences rather than following strict customs.

Tips for Choosing Your First Dance Song

• Pick a song that reflects your story or feelings as a couple.

• Consider the tempo and how comfortable you feel dancing to it.

• Think about your guests and whether you want them to join in.

• Don’t feel pressured to follow tradition—your wedding should be your celebration.

  
  

Your first dance is a moment to enjoy, not a performance to stress over. Whether you pick one of these popular songs or something completely different, make sure it feels right for you.