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The Ultimate Wedding Music Timeline

Planning your wedding music can feel like a lot. There’s the ceremony, the drinks reception, the wedding breakfast, the evening party… and somehow you’ve got to make it all flow.

Good news: we’ve played over 1,000 weddings across Yorkshire and the UK, and we know exactly what works — and what doesn’t.


Here’s a simple, one-page wedding music timeline you can use to plan the soundtrack to your entire day. It’s downloadable, screenshot-able, and genuinely one of the most useful tools for couples planning a wedding in 2025.


Your Wedding Music Timeline (Step-by-Step)


1. Guest Arrival — 20–30 minutes of chilled music


Set the tone as guests walk in. Think acoustic covers, relaxed indie, soft pop or mellow classics.

Song vibe ideas:


  • Jack Johnson

  • Ben Howard

  • Lighthouse Family

  • The Lumineers

  • John Mayer



Pro Tip: If you're using a device for your music playlists make sure all music id downloaded, airplane mode is on, you're fully charged and have an adaptor (not all venues have Bluetooth or WIFI)


2. Aisle Song — The moment everything stops


This is your big moment. Choose something meaningful, emotional, or completely unexpected — whatever reflects you

SWB often performs:


  • Can't Help Falling in Love – Elvis Presley

  • Still the one – Shania Twain

  • I Get To Love You – Ruelle



3. Signing the Register — 2–3 songs


This usually takes longer than couples expect. Choose 2–3 songs that keep the vibe warm and relaxed.


  • Signed, Sealed, Delivered – Stevie Wonder

  • On Top Of The World – Imagine Dragons

  • 1,2,3,4– Feist


Ideas: romantic acoustic covers or chilled indie favourites.



4. Exit Song — big smiles + big energy


You’re officially married — time for something upbeat.

Great choices:


  • This Will Be (An Everlasting Love) – Natalie Cole

  • You Make My Dreams Come True – Hall & Oates

  • Best Day of My Life – American Authors




5. Drinks Reception — 1–2 hours


Guests are mingling, champagne is flowing, photos are happening. You want music that feels fun but not overpowering.

Options:✔ Playlist curated by you✔ Acoustic duo/trio performance✔ A chilled DJ set

Vibe: indie-pop, acoustic covers, easy singalongs.




6. Wedding Breakfast — background atmosphere


Not silence. Not club level. Just the right blend to keep things warm while guests chat.

We recommend:


  • Acoustic indie

  • Singer-songwriter

  • Soft 90s/00s nostalgia

  • Acoustic pop punk covers



7. First Dance — your way, your vibe


This sets the tone for the evening party. We often perform a slow intro → full band drop which gets the dancefloor packed instantly.

Most requested first dances in 2024/25:


  • Baby I'm Yours – Arctic Monkeys

  • First Date (slow intro version) – Blink-182

  • Still Into You – Paramore





8. Band Set 1 — Let the party begin


This is where SWB do our thing: indie, rock, pop-punk, 90s/00s nostalgia, singalong bangers and more.

Goal: get everyone on the dancefloor — not just the millennials (though we love them the most).




9. DJ Break — keep the energy rolling


We keep the room bouncing with your favourite tunes while guests grab drinks, food, and a breather.

You can:✔ Send us a playlist✔ Give us “must-plays” or “no-plays”✔ Add on our pro DJ package and let us read the room (we’ve got you)


Wedding party Dj mix

10. Band Set 2 — full send!


This is the big one — the “everyone loses their minds” set.

Expect:


  • Blink-182

  • The Killers

  • Wheatus

  • Kings of Leon

  • Linkin Park

  • Pop-punk nostalgia

  • Indie bangers

  • Crowd anthems


This is where we bring the chaos (the good kind).



11. Final Song — the perfect ending


Finish strong with a moment you’ll remember forever.

Our most requested last songs:

  • Mr Brightside – The Killers

  • Don’t Look Back In Anger – Oasis

  • Love Story – Stone Roses

  • Angels – Robbie Williams

  • Good Riddance (Time of Your Life) – Green Day


Choose something meaningful — or something everyone can scream.



Download the Timeline guide


Save this for PDF guide with all the info in a handy and easy to ready PDF



Want SWB to Handle the Music For Your Whole Day?


We offer optional add-ons you can bolt on anytime:


  • Afternoon acoustic options

  • DJ package

  • Early arrival/Late finish

  • PA + mic hire for speeches

  • Live sax add-on

  • Early arrival


You can build the exact wedding soundtrack you want — no stress, no hassle.


Planning Your Wedding? We Can Help


If you’d like a hand shaping your music timeline, picking your first dance, or keeping the dancefloor full all night:


👉 We can hold your date for 7 days — no obligation. Just click the link below, drop us a message and we’ll check availability.



Final Tip


Your wedding soundtrack is more important than people realize…but when you get it right? Your day flows, your guests have the best time, and the dancefloor becomes the heart of the night.

If you want help making that happen — you know where we are.



 
 
 

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